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Entry 03 · Tennis Europe U14 · Nicosia, CY · May 2026 · Clay

Day 3: Main Draw U14

The third day, and the last of the three I had taken on. Deeper into the Main Draw now — the matches that decide things. And once again, what stood out was not the technique. It was the temperament.

It started with a scoring error in one of the girls' matches.

The correct response to a wrong score is one of the simplest things in tennis. You call the supervisor. That is what the chair and the supervisor are there for — the score is checked, corrected if it needs to be, and the match continues. Quiet, clean, over in a minute.

That is not what happened. Once the opponent's coach realised the score was wrong, he didn't bring it to me. He took it to the court — and the player's own people kept it alive, circling back to it between points, talking at her while she was still trying to play. A child cannot carry a match and an argument at the same time. She started crying on court.

And here is the part worth sitting with. She won.

Whatever that pressure was meant to achieve, it achieved the reverse. Tears and all, she closed out the match. Two things are worth taking from that. The first is procedural: there is a channel for these situations, and it exists precisely so the child is never the one left holding it. The second is about character. Put that same weight on many players her age and they fold in the second set. She didn't.

A smaller observation, but it ran across the whole event rather than any single match: the rackets.

A point is lost, and the racket goes into the clay. It is common at this age, and it is one of the first things that has to be unlearned. There is nothing in it. It does not win the point back, and it is not a good look — not for the player, not for the game. This is exactly the kind of habit that should be corrected in training, long before it becomes part of who the player is on court.

The clearest lesson of the day came in a boys' match that went to a third set.

Going into that set, one of them kept lifting himself — come on, let's go — out loud, audibly raising his own level. The other muttered to himself, head down, grumbling through the changeovers. The score going into the third was even. The inner state was not. The one who lifted himself took the match.

That is the whole point of what I keep watching for. At this age the strokes are often close to identical. What separates two players, when it is tight, is what they say to themselves in the third set.

By the end of the day the same conclusion had repeated itself in three different forms: in a tournament, psychology and character decide far more than people give them credit for. The machine is built in the laboratory. The driver is revealed on the road.

And to close the loop on the scoring error — because the fix really is that simple. If a score is wrong, it is not settled across the net, and it is certainly not worked out through the child. The player, or the coach calmly, raises it with the supervisor. The supervisor checks it, corrects it, play resumes. One minute. The match stays clean, and the child's head stays where it belongs — on the next point.

End of the third day — and the last of the three I had taken on.